I love romance readings.I’m a hopeless romantic! I still get excited when a happy client messages me to say they have found love once more.

It takes so much courage to be vulnerable with our hearts. To step into the arena once more and try again, daring to trust again.

Hindsight is a powerful gift.

I find the more intelligent a person, the more in danger they are of intellectualizing the process.

There comes a point where you have to surrender.

You have to take that leap of faith into the unknown.

For comfort & safety can be great bedfellows for awhile….but there is no growth there. The years can pass & whilst your heart is safe, no love can blossom in such a place.

There are no guarantees sadly.

The soulmate relationship is one of the most intense experiences to encounter. When it’s good it’s great , when it’s bad it’s horrid.

When your heart has been broken, you need to rest & recover.

The part of you that is your truth needs to assimilate the lesson.

You must accept it is over.

Suffering occurs when we internalize & Annalise every minuscule text preceding the breakup and in its wake.

The nervous exhaustion alone is enough to push you over the edge.

The endless whys / ifs/ ands or buts. The woulda/ coulda / shouldas that serve to torture us late into the night. The waking anxiety if we had said this..done that…looked like this etc.

This is what misery feels like.

Love is unconditional.

When you become awakened from a conditional mindset you begin to see patterns in all your relationships. Boundaries is a turning point in healthy mature relationships. Knowing you are enough as you are. In your gorgeous shape & sensuality. Owning your sexuality & desire.

Accepting that compliment.

Knowing you deserve to be happy.

Being vulnerable and communicating your needs to someone whose needs are equally important to you.

You deserve so much joy, but first you must acknowledge the need to fix another. The compulsive attraction to the wounded soul. That red flag that’s waving at you, is your subconscious going “iceberg straight ahead!”

How do you stop this attraction?

You acknowledge your beautiful wounded soul.

You seek help. Get to the root of the issue. Look at examples of kind people. Seek them out. Allow yourself to receive instead of endlessly give.

None of the lessons are easy.

Yet love is so precious.

If it’s one thing I’ve learned from several thousand readings over the last 20 years, it’s that when we connect with that special person all the other lessons we learned with other lovers make sense. Love is a two way street. It takes work. It’s not easy , but it most certainly is worth it.

In the end….all there is

Is love.

Don’t give up.

©️Fiona Ní Mhuirri